I will be shameless and make a full disclosure: Bereft of the legendary beauty, crown jewels, garb and finery, I lived like royalty in Jaipur.
My host and her family accommodated me in the huge guest room of their well appointed home. My room had a living room, a jacuzzi and an ante room. Beside my room is an indoor swimming pool. The household help Rimla would knock on my door every morning to bring my coffee and biscuits before the morning breakfast at ten.
While waiting for my driver, Kamini would discuss with me my itinerary and would suggest which routes to take. She would then hand to me my snacks - bottles of cold water, fresh fruits like lychees, jamun and biscuits (pakora) which I would dip in cream cheese.
When I’d get home, a bottle of cold water would be on my side table and my laundry washed and neatly folded or pressed and hung in the closet by Rimla, with her sometimes asking me if I needed a massage. I felt like living in a full service apartment or hotel. Only better – because I would spend evenings swapping stories with Kamini about her daughters, her passion for documentary film making whose subject matters revolve around advocacy on Indian women’s health and welfare. It was through her films that I have seen the flora and fauna of the remotest villages in India with snappy camera work and scenic cinematography. Certain evenings we would watch some of her films together. I was most impressed with her work on Chhattisgarh which was engaging as it was informative.
I was contemplative when I left Jaipur. The only way I knew I could thank her for her winning ways was to hug her in the train station. I felt like my stay with her was one of the many advanced birthday gifts the Lord gave me for my birthday. When something really wonderful happens in my life, like this time that I met Kamini and was blessed by her and her family’s inimitable hospitality, I’d be reminded of a line from a song from Rodgers and Hammerstein’s Sound of Music: ‘Nothing comes from nothing, nothing ever could/ So somewhere in my youth or childhood, I must have done something good.
Having said that, here’s a sampling of the Northeastern Indian cuisine that I relished and actually miss!
This snap was taken by my host in Jaipur, Kamini an artist and documentary filmmaker
Potato, Lady fingers, yellow dal with ghee and chili, another dal (monkhee?) with ghee and an Indianized version of Thai soup
Vegetarian stir fried vegetables

Chicken lababdar, her daughter’s favorite
Chicken Seekh Kabab
Chicken Malai Kabab
Mutton marinated in coriander leaves, garlic paste, ghee, salt, chili – stewed and tenderized. My host’s specialty dish among others. Everything she cooked was divine!
It was only when I finished the two bowls of mutton did my host tell me that she cooked half a kilo of it and I ate almost all of it. Was I so embarrassed but it was a testament to how good a cook she was!







And, maybe how hungry you were, But, I think I would have done the same, eaten the lot!
I’m sure you would have done the same. Everything tasted so good! (And yes, her cooking always made me hungry)
Best,
Eva
That is a delectable story.
Thank you Scott! I would have to thank Kamini for that. She made my Jaipur stay such a happy memory!
Best,
Eva
what a way to live! i would never want to return home and have to do for myself, the cooking
Hi Terry, Yes, I had a charmed life in Jaipur, thanks to Kamini.
I know exactly how it feels and I know what you mean.
Your host sounds like a beautiful person. I am sure you added to her life as much as she did to yours. I love apprecitation you have for the experiences you have been blessed with. So many take these things for granted. You cherish and nourish each and every moment. It is a lesson I am learning and you are an inspiration. Thank you!
Thank you for the kind words Sandra. She is indeed a beautiful person. And I’ve seen how a sweet and loving mother she is to her two daughters. And how kind her family is to the house help. I believe that how one treats the house help is a reflection of the person one is. I often travel solo and my prayer is to be blessed with an ‘angel’ on earth to guide and guard me. The Lord never failed me, not even once. As a church hymn goes ‘Persons are gifts’. And I am thankful for each encounter that makes my travel experiences more colorful and richer, no matter how fleeting.
Best,
Eva
Oh WOW – you’re the luckiest person!
Thank you! I was blessed. And yes, lucky! Thanks to Kamini, her daughters, her husband Akilesh and their thoughtful ways.
Thanks for dropping by!
Eva
Lovely blog post – thank you for sharing this & your other posts about Jaipur. Your words said “inimitable hospitality” but I read “intimate hospitality” and I guess you don’t get one without the other. On another, hungry, note, not only did the cuisine sound delicious, it was displayed fabulously, something I think we should all take time to do where we are able.
Hi Ella, thanks for the kind words. Kamini is an artist. Her table setting is always tasteful. I sort of messed it up. Her art is shown in how tasteful the accents in her home are, her fashion sense even if she is just staying at home. All told, she is a sophisticated woman and would easily stand out in the crowd.
The food looks delicious, now I am hungry!
It was. All of them. So I don’t blame you if they make you hungry. I am too, now, ha ha
OMG – looking at your pictures is pure torture, I’ve not yet had any lunch!! Thanks for visiting my page, and sharing yours with me. It’s been wonderful to read your article and I’ll be back for more!
Thank you! I like your photos too. A splash of brilliant colors!
I’m hungry now… Nice post… Nice blog…
Thank you Bukit Bear!
Beautiful food photography! Fit for a magazine spread. My mouth is watering. I can smell the spices.
Thank you Fay! The not so nice thing about food photographs is that you miss out on the aroma.
Oh..how much i miss N.Indian food!
Yup! I don’t blame you. It’s really something – home cooking or fast food. But of course,a lot of love and care go with home cooking.
uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh YUM?!?!?
Thanks for checking out my blog! Have enjoyed getting lost in yours this morning.
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Yup, yummy to the nth degree! Thanks for dropping by.
The food looks delicious, and the presentation is beautiful. I’ve been experimenting with east Indian cooking since becoming vegetarian. Yum. I wish you had the recipes to post too, but I’ll try to find them in my cookbooks.
Hi Teresa. Thanks! Unfortunately, the only experimenting with Indian food that I do is in the eating. But you are correct, the food was great, especially the mutton. I don’t know how Kamini did it but the meat was so tender and succulent you couldn’t stop asking for more. I ate this with roti, then basmati rice and both. I was unstoppable.
They’re probably still talking about their gluttonous little house guest to this day.
Ha ha, we keep in touch through her younger daughter. I plead guilty. I gained eight pounds in two weeks!
Hi! Thanks for your like on my post yesterday. I found this one of yours today and the food looks yum!
Thank you blodge!
These all look delicious! Now I really want Indian food!
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(oh and thanks for stopping by my blog